Expert Separation Resources

At AFLAS, we understand the whole journey individuals experience in the changing face of family. That’s why we’ve created a safe and inclusive space where you can access information to guide you through your separation.

If you’re looking to separate from your partner, we’re here to help.

Going through a separation is tough, and the last thing you want is to decipher complicated legal jargon. We’re here to assist you through the entire process and provide the support you need.

Help to all Australians navigating all stages of separation.

What is a family? Despite the ever changing definition of the Australian family, one thing is certain – relationship breakdowns are difficult to prepare for.

Ending a non-marital relationship can legally be just as complicated as divorce, especially if there are children, pets or property involved.

We understand how overwhelming it must feel to navigate the complex legal landscape when you’re dealing with so much change and distress.

That’s why we have created a platform where you can access every resource that will help you understand your legal rights.

Depending on the relationship you have with your ex-partner, you might only need access to some information on how to separate. In other cases, you might need to engage lawyers, mediators, accountants or psychologists.

The end of a relationship means a new beginning.

We know separating isn’t easy. But we also know that you want to minimise the impact of your separation on your life, and you want to reach the other side with the least amount of emotional and financial pressure. We’ll support you on your way there, a new life of independence and happiness.

Talk to a legal or relationship professional now to help reduce your stress and work out the best way forward for you.

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Our most Frequently
Asked Questions

How do you know it’s time to separate?

The breakdown of a relationship is not easy, but there are always signs it’s time to separate. Some of the signs are:

  • Separating from your partner will improve your quality of life
  • You and/or your partner stopped engaging in your relationship
  • The relationship is abusive. Abuse is never okay, and any form of abuse means that you should get out. Find more information on our Domestic Violence page or at https://www.1800respect.org.au/
  • You’re only staying together for financial reasons or for the children.
How to talk to kids about separation?

Talking to children about separation can be difficult, especially when you’re going through a hard time yourself. Get in touch with one of our trusted psychologists or counsellors that can give you the best advice and support in this situation.

How to start a separation?

The best way to start your separation is to navigate our website. Here you will find all the information you need to start your separation.

What should you not do during separation?

Don’t rely on advice from friends. While your friends have good intentions, they might not be equipped with the professional knowledge that can give you the best outcome and help.

What is the difference between separation and divorce?

The difference between the separation of a couple in a de facto relationship and a married couple is that the latter needs to undertake legal proceedings to end the relationship.

Who gets to stay in the house during separation in Australia?

Both parties are entitled to live in the house after separation, regardless of who owns the property or is listed on the rental agreement. No one can be forced to leave unless there is a court order.

What am I entitled to in a de facto separation?

De facto couples have the same rights as married couples. For example, if you have a dependent child, you could qualify for assistance.

How to help someone going through a separation?

The process of separation is never easy. If someone you love that is going through this, the best way to help them is to be there for them and listen. Empathy and perspective are important, but make sure you don’t offer them uneducated advice. If they need professional help and support, you can refer them to our website.

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Downloads that might help your journey

Protecting Your Furry Family Member In Pet Custody Battles
From being fantastic companions to bringing smiles to our children’s faces, pets hold a special place in...
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